Photo taken at Metro City (Shanghai) in February 2017
Hello! I’m Shelly, your Overseas Singaporean Liaison in China. Can’t believe it’s been two exciting years since I first stepped foot in Shanghai, without knowing anyone at all. I did feel homesick initially, but imagine my pleasant surprise one day when I found a Merlion statue at Metro City – a mall near my neighbourhood! I guess reminders of home are never too far away.
Here are 5 tips that have helped me to adapt to life in Shanghai – and I hope these will be just as useful, wherever you might be in the world!
Tip 1: Step out of your comfort zone
Xiao Long Bao (soup dumplings) is certainly a must-eat when you’re in Shanghai. Well, since I am living here, I decided to take it one step further by learning how to make my very own xiao long bao at a local cooking class! While I was at it, I made sure I learnt to make my favourite dim sum dish – CARROT CAKE! Definitely not the prettiest Xiao Long Bao, but for someone who never stepped into the kitchen before her move to Shanghai, I say it’s a pretty good effort. Next cooking project – Nasi Lemak – so who’s up to be my guinea pig?
Tip 2: Friends are the new family
Truly, it is the friends we meet along the way that helps us appreciate the journey! My time in Shanghai wouldn’t have been the same without all the amazing people that I’ve met along the way. When in a new place, don’t hold yourself back from reaching out to or meeting new people. Take the leap of faith, and talk to the stranger next to you – because you’d never know if that person could be your new BFF!
Tip 3: Explore the country and take in the sights
China is HUGE, and it would be a waste to just stay in the city all the time. I took some time off to go on a solo hike at Tiger Leaping Gorge (虎跳峡, hǔ tiào xiá), one of the deepest river canyons in the world, and it was an immensely rewarding experience. I definitely lucked out, because I also met the kindest and friendliest of fellow travellers on this gorgeous hike!
Tip 4: Find a ‘purr-fect’ buddy
There are bound to be challenges when adapting to a new city, but it’s important to stay ‘PAWsitive’! Seven months into my posting, I chanced upon a litter of kittens abandoned outside the Singapore Consulate in Shanghai, and this little boy wormed his way into my heart (though I was definitely a dog person before this)! Being a fur-mama has been absolutely ‘meow-some’ and through Tiger, I’ve also gotten to know more like-minded animal lovers. Bet you didn’t know there’s a large Singaporean pet owner community in Shanghai ;)
Tip 5: Bring along a piece of home with you
You can take a Singaporean out of Singapore, but you can’t take Singapore out of a Singaporean! Yes, your eyes aren’t playing tricks on you. Actually, this is just a fraction of my usual stash each time I head back home to Singapore. A decent cup of kopi-C kosong is hard to find in China, so I have to stock up on my caffeine fix – and of course, all my favourite food!
What other tips helped you through your transition in a new country? Reach out to me via my Facebook Page or WeChat Account (ID: OSLChina) and let me know – I’d love to hear about it!
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